Mediation can be a cost-effective and less stressful way to resolve disputes between two parties. However, mediation can sometimes require much thought and planning to achieve a calm and graceful separation. You may have an upcoming mediation and wonder how to prepare and make the most of the mediation.
- Manage your emotions
The process of separation often has an emotional toll. It is important to acknowledge and remember that you and your former partner are going through a separation. Strong feelings and emotions may arise during the mediation. It may not be easy but try to keep your emotions in check. Managing your feelings reduces conflict and increases the chance of resolving your family law matter amicably.
- Be open-minded
Mediation is about reaching an agreement for both parties. Try to go into the mediation with an open mind. Try not to think of it as a win/lose scenario, instead have the mind frame with the goal of achieving a solution that will suit both you and your former partner. To achieve this, you and your former partner will need to be willing to compromise.
- Make a list
A good strategy for going into mediation is to make a list of your priorities. Take a look at your property pool. Start your list with the things that are most important for you. Then move on to the things that you may be willing to compromise with. Do you have money accumulated in your superannuation that you may be willing to split? Are there joint savings that you’re willing to split? And finally, list the things that are not as important for you. This can assist you when discussing agreements.
- Get legal advice
It is recommended to get legal advice for your mediation. A Family Lawyer can help support you at mediation and help you prepare for mediation. At Grace Family and Collaborative Law, our expertise is in collaborative family law, and we strive to help our clients achieve amicable solutions. If you would like to speak to an experienced Collaborative Family Law Solicitor about your mediation, contact us on 1300 414 855 for a consultation.
Other helpful sources:
Relationships Australia –
Services Australia –
https://www.servicesaustralia.gov.au/individuals/subjects/support-services-separated-parents